Sometimes It Hurts
I remember when my kids were growing up that my wife and I
wanted to buy them everything they wanted. That was a little
hard since we could barely make ends meet with the bare
necessities.
When Christmas or birthdays rolled around we always managed to
get them something nice but we would pay for it for months.
Talking to my kids now they seem to think that we did ok by
them, and even spoiled them at times.
As a parent and now a grandparent I know all too well the
feeling of not being able to buy what you want for your family.
It's a feeling of hurt mixed in with a little shame that you
can't give more.
I would like for you to think about something for a minute.
When I was 12 my Dad was out of work due to an injury and
(believe it or not) we were living on a $54 a month disability
pension he received. That Christmas I got a wallet bought with
Green Stamps (most of you won't remember them).
Although that's been 48 years ago it's the only Christmas I
remember vividly. Why is that?
I believe it's because Mom and Dad told us that things were
tight financially and that we may not get anything. My sister
and I knew they had done their best.
If you are considering running your credit cards to the
breaking point this Christmas you may want to think about it
long and hard. Talk to your kids and let them know the
situation. Maybe December 25th, 2007 will be their fondest
memory of Christmas too!
Clean out storage closets to take inventory of items that you
may have forgotten about. Many of us buy more baggies, cleaners,
shoe protectants, spackle or whatever because we forgot that we
still have some left or the item was out of sight when we
attempted to locate it. Getting organized also gives you the
opportunity to donate or sell unwanted or forgotten items at a
yard sale offering further income or a tax donation.
Laurie
Hello Grandpa Terry,
My husband and I just received in the mail that one of our credit cards that we paid off will now have an annual fee of $75.00 starting this month. I want to cancel the card to avoid the extra charge and we don't use it anymore. My concern is that if I cancel it will it hurt our credit?
We just got the letter 9/06/07 and it stated that it would be on our Sept bill-can they do that too without enough notice?
Love all your info and help,
Ronda
My Response:
Hi Ronda,
I would go ahead and cancel the card to avoid the annual fee. It could have a small negative affect on your
credit score but it may be worth it to save that $75 a year. When you call them make sure that they don't
already have the fee charged. If they do have them remove it.
The terms of the card should list how much notice they are required to give you on any changes. Each card
company is a little different.
I hope this helps,
Grandpa Terry
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